Do you believe in religion? If not do you share the same values?

Shared values are THE MOST IMPORTANT thing in a marriage. Do you both value partnership? Do you both see your marriage as a partnership (it is). Can you work on projects together or is one of you controlling? Controlling behavior is a HUGE red flag.
Are you sexually compatible? I do know successful marriages where this is not true but it requires a lot of compromise over a VERY long period of time. Are you willing to compromise on this for the next 50 years? If you don’t divorce you are likely to stay married that long.
Can you play together? Do you have shared hobbies? If he likes to watch football with his male friends every weekend are you ok with that? Do you have playtime? A spouse is your lifetime playmate as well as your friend. Do you both like to hike together, go to the beach together?

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